Blow job, giving head, getting your knees dirty, going down on, give cone, sucking off, whatever you choose to call it, fellatio by any other name still feels just as good to your Dom. Being able to give good head is a vital skill for any submissive so here are some useful tips, tricks and how-to’s help you serve me the best.
THE BASICS:
The Marriam-Webster Online Dictionary defines fellatio as: oral stimulation of the penis. While that definition may be pretty self explanatory, it doesn’t do much to give you the low down on how to perform the basics of a good blow job. Contrary to what porn may show you, a good blow job is about more than just bobbing your head up and down at a frantic, head-banging pace on his cock.
The basic foundation of a good blow job consists of 4 pillars:
- Lubrication
- Suction
- Rhythm
- Care
Lubrication:
Nothing kills the mood when giving your Dom head than dry mouth and lack of good lubrication. Watching porn, you will often see the giver spit on the penis of the receiver. The simple and obvious reason for this is to provide good lubrication, a vital cornerstone of a good blow job. Lubrication will facilitate smooth gliding of his cock in and out of your mouth and minimize friction which can be rather painful. If you notice the skin 'pulling' be sure to add more lube.
Lubing up:
- You can use your own natural lubrication – saliva. Work up some spit in your mouth and lick it all over his penis or, if he enjoys a bit more of a show, spit onto his cock with a sexy smile.
- Got dry mouth? Not to worry, flavoured lubes will do the trick and you can choose your favourite yummy flavour!
- Remember that spitting is both slutty and sexy -- so don't be afraid to do it often.
Lubing up, a good start to giving great head.
Suction:
Suction is an important part of giving good head; while I appreciate a strong sucking, don’t go in too strong straight off the bat. Just as with rhythm (which you will get to in a moment), start slowly with a gentle sucking and work up to your maximum suction power. Remember that you will only be able to really suck the first couple of inches, maybe 2 or so, before your sucking power will inevitably peter out like a vibe with dying batteries. You will be focusing your sucking skills on the head and maybe the first inch of his shaft so once you work up to full strength, make it count!
Rhythm:
Rhythm is another vital cornerstone of a good blow job. You cannot just take my cock into your mouth and start bobbing away furiously, not only will this lead to a poor blow job but you will also get tired quickly and run the risk of giving yourself an unpleasant neck injury --denying me future BJ pleasures. The basic rhythm foundation for giving good head is to start out slow and work up to a fast but comfortable speed that won’t leave you in a foam neck brace for a week.
Tip: When working on a rhythm, try picking a set number of strokes, say 5 or 7 or however many you like (just not too many). Let’s say, for example, that you chose 7 strokes; you would give him 6 slow, gentle, almost teasing strokes to start off with and 1 faster, more powerful stroke. The next repetition would have 5 slower strokes and 2 faster etc until all 7 strokes are fast and powerful and then in the repetition after that go back to the beginning with 6 slow and 1 fast and do it all over again. This is a great way to build up anticipation and pleasure without popping his cork too quickly.
Care:
Most people think care must be taken on to involve those pretty pearly whites of yours. I enjoy a little teeth action at times (especially a bit of biting around the base of penis). But this should be used to heighten sensation and used sparingly as contrast. For the most part, things should be lovely, slippery and smooth feeling.
How to give a slippy slide:
- The first step is to pretend that your Dom’s cock is a super frozen popsicle and you have a mouth full of freshly filled teeth. Any contact with that popsicle will send painful, electric-like shocks into your jaw and head. This isn’t a fool proof method but if you are working a slow rhythm then it will more often than not do the trick.
- The next tip is to fold your lips in over your teeth, covering them like a sports gum guard would. This may not look as sexy as the above trick but it is a sure fire way to help you protect your Dom’s precious cock from your pearly whites, especially if you are working up to a faster rhythm.
Now that you have the basics of a good blow job under your belt, it’s time to learn how to blow like a pro by adding a few top tips and tricks to your repertoire.
TIPS AND TRICKS:
Passion, Enthusiasm, Excitement:
Let’s face it, nobody likes to have sex with a cold fish and this goes for oral sex too. When you give your Dom a blow job, make an effort to show Him that you are enjoying giving Him pleasure. Giving head should be one of the most pleasurable or exciting sexual experience you have because you are giving pleasure and serving him well. If you are not receiving any physical stimulation from me, it is always ok to touch your pussy during a blowjob to show me how much giving BJs turns you on. But don't overdo it --I know the difference if you start faking. I want the real you. Here are a few tips to make your performance more passionate and enthusiastic:
- Make eye contact – don’t stare me down in a creepy way, just look up occasionally to make eye contact.
The eyes are the windows to a happy (submissive) soul.
- Makes some noise – you don’t have to scream orgasmically or put on a fake performance like in the over abundance of plastic, cookie-cutter porn out there. Little vocal gestures can make all the difference, some mmm’s and ah’s occasionally, tell me how good I taste and now good my cock feels in your mouth.
- Vary your speed, intensity and rhythm – monotony can kill a good blow job so switch it up randomly and according to my physical responses to show me that you are paying attention and not just going about the motions.
Remember that knowing that you are excited to suck me off and are enjoying it will please me and I will allow you to service me more in the future.
Happy little cock sucker.
A Helping Hand:
Using your hands can help you stimulate the entire penis at the same time for maximum pleasure, so don’t be shy about lending yourself a helping hand:
Take me from flaccid to rock solid hard with your hands and then add your mouth to the mix. Hold my erect penis as you would a microphone and slide your hand up and down it's length. Add your mouth and follow the movement of your hands as far down as you can comfortably and then back up.
Tip # 1: Use lots of spit and/or lube on your hand. A lubed hand feels about 20x better than a dry one.
Tip # 2: While using your hands and before the blow job gets too serious, take a break and try this nifty trick. Grip my penis with one hand, making a ring around the shaft with your fingers. Slide this hand up and down my shaft, squeezing a little for extra effect. Lube up the tip of my cock with spit or lube and cup the palm of the other hand over the head. Now make gentle circling motions with the hand cupping my cock head, kind of like a very gentle juicing action. This will feel really good for me and give your mouth a little break.
Tip # 3: Instead of just following your mouth up and down on my cock, spice it up by doing a gentle corkscrew/twisting motion with your hands as they glide up and down my shaft. You can also gently roll your head in a similar motion over the heard of his penis at the same time. Remember, gentle movements as you don’t want to hurt your Dom or yourself, you can always make the movements stronger if he tells you to.
Lend yourself a helping hand for an amazing blow job.
Use Your Tongue:
Use your tongue to maximum effect, twirl it around the head of my cock, flick it over the tip, lick around where the head meets the shaft…be creative and watch my appreciation.
Twirling your tongue around the sensitive head of his cock will feel really good.
More than just cock:
When going down on your Mastrer, remember that my penis is not my only pleasure spot. Try adding extra stimulation to overload my pleasure senses by tickling, licking and very gently sucking his testicles. Cup my balls with one hand. Gently caress them. Stimulate the perineum (the sensitive area between the testicles and anus) with gentle massage and if you are feeling bold you can also lick the upper part closest to his balls. Use a moist finger or two to gently massage the outer part of the anus. Be creative.
The Map:
My penis is a real life treasure and you should be thankful to get to explore every super sensitive spot to make me blow my load, HARD.
The Head/Glans: this is one of the most sensitive areas on my entire body so paying special attention to it packs a real pleasure punch.
The Testicles: Gentle is the way to go but stimulating this often forgotten but very sensitive area will leave me weak in the knees.
The Perineum: Explore more of me to get rocks off so much better. Stimulate the upper perineum just behind the tested for maximum effect.
The Fraenulum: This is the sensitive line on the underside of my penis where the head meets the shaft, running your tongue gently along this line feels amazing! Stimulating the fraenulum with the underside of your tongue feels surprisingly good:
Hold the base of his cock gently and place the underside of your tongue against his fraenulum and quickly flick it from side to side, kind of like a pendulum in fast forward.
The Anus: If you want to show me you are a real slut wanting to do any dirty thing to please me, then as things get heated up, take a couple of wet fingers and massage the outer portion of the anus. Swirl around, You can even put a finger in a little bit...but not to deep or it distracts from the blowjob.
Add things to your mouth, add to your blowjob:
Being as sensitive as it is, the penis will be very receptive to hot and cold sensations. Here is how you can bring temperature play into your blow job:
- Take a swig of hot (not too hot – you don’t want to burn your mouth) and swill it around in your mouth a bit before swallowing and then take his cock into your mouth, sucking for about 30 seconds. Then repeat with some ice water, the change in sensations should be thrilling and enjoyable for him.
- Cold fizzy drinks, chilled champagne, ice-cream can bring added sensations into playing with temperature during your blow job.
- You can also try small ice cubes or medium ice chips, treating him to the warm, wetness of your mouth with flashes of chilly sensation keeping him on high alert.
- Another way to play with temperature is to warm him up with your mouth and then blowing gently on his penis.
Minty Fresh:
You know how mints can make your mouth sensitive to temperature and all tingly? They work the same type of magic on a cock and chances are he will love the effect. Suck on a mint pre blow job or while you are busy going down on him; you can even try blowing on his penis once the mints take their tingly effect.
Saucy Sessions:
Whether you like the taste of your Dom’s cock or not, there is no harm in turning a blow job into a taste sensation. Try some cream, chocolate body paint, chocolate sauce or various other sweet sauces in yummy flavours that will make you WANT to lick him clean and enjoy it too!
mmm…chocolate sauce, yummy!
Make his rocks pop:
Use the popping candy Pop Rocks to your mouth so that you add a distinctive popping sensation to your blowjob.
Deck the Halls:
Using the throat candy, Halls which has a menthol additive ads a huge amount of sensation to any blowjob. The black halls is best. As you suck away, you can pull off and blow -- the air will make a pleasant cooling feel that is awesome and intense.
Lick His Ice-Cream Cone:
Flatten your tongue against his penis and lap at him with long strokes from base to tip, leaving no inch untouched and untantalised. Licking his ice-cream cone in this way will not only feel good but it when you throw a little eye contact into the mix it will look good too.
Love Bites:
Lip-nibble your way up his shaft by very gently taking the skin of his penis between your lips and softly giving it a small tug. You can also use your teeth. Be somewhat gentle but if I'm very aroused you can nip much harder and it will still feel good. My cock isn't as delicate as you might think. I especially enjoy you going all the way down and then biting around the base of my cock.
Turn Your Routine Upside Down:
Lie on your back on the bed or couch, hanging your head over the edge. Allow me to stand astride your head and fuck your mouth. I enjoy the control and ability to go deeper and forcing you to deep throat. It's especially good as this can produce a lot of sexy saliva!
Doesn’t this just look like so much fun?!
Gagging:
Gagging during oral sex is a massive turn on for me. Gagging is an involuntary reflex but pressing on and continuing the blowjob enthusiastically is a great way to show your devotion.
The Ultimate Gag:
Your Master is a real pervert and loves it when you go so hard and deep that you gag and actually throw up on my cock. The first time this happened with a slave, she was deeply embarrassed and we had to do a timeout (yes, I had a buddy there who was also enjoying her...which was twice as embarrassing for her.) But I soon found that the vomit became a massive turn on. One, because the little slut has not control over her body -- it's all about me making her experience things. Two, the vomit itself is a fantastic lubricant! It feels so warm, slippery and nice...really, there's nothing better. I say again, it feels damn fine. Three, when she pukes, her pussy and anus involuntarily tighten (this has many other advantages.) Four, if she presses on and continues the blowjob even though she has just puked...looking up at you with love in her eyes and a desire to please no matter what her discomfort...well, nothing makes my heart melt like that kind of amazing devotion.
Bonus: Lick it up again to show me what a wanton slut you are!
A Great Slap Job:
Mix things up and watch my appreciation. Try gently slapping my cock against the side of your face or stick out your tongue and gently slap my hard cock against it. You can also try making a big O with your mouth with me inside it and gently slap my penis from side to side against the insides of your cheeks. When done correctly and with sensual flair, these moves will pleasantly surprise me and make you look like a sex rock start. If you are unsure about technique, try it with a jelly dong first to perfect the moves before trying it on your Dom.
The Final Mad Dash:
You know your Dom is getting close to cumming when his body gives you several indications:
- as I get nearer and nearer, my hands usually migrate down to my thighs and press into them. I don't know why...
- my testicles become harder and seem to pull up into my body with the scrotal sack seeming to shrink. When I cum, one testicle is actually pulled inside my body. (While this happens to every guy, a lot of people don't know this...as they are usually watching the rest of the show.)
- My muscles will tighten, legs stiffen and pelvis arch into your mouth.
This is the important turning point beyond which there is no return and the time is now to pick up your pace, suck harder and give this blow job your all.
The Grand Finale:
Just before your Master cums in your mouth, you should be able to feel my cock throbbing, pulsing, even twitching a mere second or 2 before my hot spunk fills your mouth. The important thing here is to show your Dom how much you appreciate my cumming on your mouth and how much you enjoy it.
As I cum, it's extremely important to keep going. I have the ability to cum for much longer than the average guy...and more intensely. I my howl and spasm and convulse for several minutes if you keep going. So do that! I cum so long and so damn hard. But if you stop for even a second or two...it can shut the whole orgasm down. Do not be alarmed at the massive intensity of the orgasm...just trust me in that, I'm enjoying myself. A LOT.
Spit or Swallow?
If You Spit:
Do it as show by spitting into another slave's mouth or into her spread ass so you can drink it again from her anus. It's fun to swap cum back and forth many times with your little friend, putting on a wonderful show for your Master.
If You Swallow:
Swallowing my cum is a real compliment and expression of commitment and I will love the gesture. Make it even more ego pleasing by looking me in the eye, opening your mouth to show off your prize and then swallow with a cheeky, satisfied smile and you can add the cherry on top by licking your lips afterwards.
Showing off her reward for a job well done.
Taste:
Once your Dom has cum in your mouth and you have either spit or swallowed, you now have the taste of his jizz in your mouth, something you will like. Love the flavor and enjoy it as long as possible. If you find my cum is less pleasant tasting than usual, you can feed me different things to make my cum sweeter and more delicious like:
- pineapple
- cinnamon, ginger and nutmeg (makes me taste like pumpkin pie.)
- citrus fruits
- cranberry juice
- apples
- mangos
- parsley
- celery
- vanilla extract
- wheatgrass
- ginger
